"The very least you can do in your life is figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is live inside that hope. Not admire it from a distance, but live right in it, under its roof." [Barbara Kingsolver]
Often we feel lost, and it's not because we don't have what we want, but for the simple fact we don't even know what it is we want. Don't confuse your "dreams" with your "hopes"—whereas a dream is sheer fancy and not grounded in reality, a hope is the byproduct of self-confidence and courage. Align yourself with your hope, and as Barbara Kingsolver says, "live right in, under its roof."